The Importance of Advocating for Your Own Health: a valuable lesson as a breast cancer survivor

In my search for answers and peace of mind, I learned a valuable lesson about the necessity of advocating for one's own health. It all started with a millet-sized lump on my right breast. My concerns were keeping initially dismissed by my physician, however they persisted as the tumor became larger. This blog writing describes my own experience exploring the healthcare system, the critical role of self-advocacy.

When I first noticed the tiny lump on my right breast, I went to the hospital seeking reassurance and answers. However, the doctor's response of "not to worry" left me feeling uneasy. As months went by, the lump continued to grow, and my concern grew with it. I knew I couldn't ignore it any longer. Despite feeling like a burden, I decided to revisit the doctor and insist on a thorough examination.

It was difficult to persuade the doctor to undertake extra tests since I could sense their unwillingness. treated me like I was making a fuss over something insignificant. But I felt deep down that I had to persevere and advocate for my health. Finally, the doctor agreed to a radiological test, albeit unhappily.

The results of two ultrasound scans at 6-month intervals came out negative, and I couldn't help but feel a wave of relief over me. It was as if a weight had been removed from my shoulders, and I allowed myself to believe that my concerns had been addressed. The negative results provided a brief break from the fear and uncertainty that had gripped me for months.

My concerns grew in alongside with the expansion of the tumor on my breast. Something was clearly wrong, and my instincts told me that I needed to act right away. The financial cost of additional medical operations, on the other hand, weighed heavily on my mind. Because my doctor has previously warned me not to return in 6 months. As a result, I knew my following step I want to get isn't covered by medical insurance.

As a 2nd generation asian single mother with 3 kids, I needed to work hard every day. It was a significant strain to take a break and undergo medical treatment without insurance. So I put it off for a while. But when it grew to the size of an egg, I should have done something. So I went to see a plastic surgeon for advice.He encouraged us to get a surgery at a lower cost, so I did.

When the lump was eventually removed during the surgery, the truth was revealed: it was breast cancer. The weight of the diagnosis overwhelmed me in a maelstrom of emotions. While processing the news, an overwhelming resentment arose within me, directed at the physician who had rejected my worries and wasted valuable time. I couldn't help but think about the important moments that were missed, the potential delays in treatment, and the implications for my prognosis. It was over 1 & half year!!! Anguish mingled with determination, fuelling my decision to take control of my health path from that moment forward. It was because I realized very clearly that no matter how much I resented the doctors for their misdiagnosis, my death could not be undone.

My experience emphasizes the crucial importance of proactive healthcare and self-advocacy. If you are ever dismissed or ignored by medical professionals, believe your instincts and seek more views.

Nobody knows your body like you do. By sharing my story, I wish to inspire people to be proactive about their health and to underline the importance of advocating for oneself. We can empower and support one another on the path to better healthcare outcomes if we work together. Being your own health advocate can help you get the quality care you deserve. Feeling empowered to express any questions, wants, concerns, or preferences may help you and your doctor in making medical decisions as a team.